小狗狗 2006-12-3 19:30
『转贴』孩子眼中的爱情和婚姻
<p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 9.0pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>关于婚姻与爱情,一组<span lang=en-us>5至10岁的美国小孩给出了他们的答案。</span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 9.0pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span lang=en-us><font size=3>也许听起来傻傻的,但是谁能说小娃娃就一定不懂事呢?<br><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></font></span></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">1.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">合适的结婚年龄是多少岁?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>84岁吧。那时候什么也不用做,有好多时间彼此相爱。(朱迪,5岁)<o:p></o:p></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>等我读完幼儿园,就得开始考虑为自己找个妻子。(汤米,<span lang=en-us>5岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">2.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">爱情是怎样发生的呢?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>我听人说,这和身上的味道有关。大人们都很喜欢用香水。(简,<span lang=en-us>9岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>我想大概会被一支箭之类的东西射中吧——应该不疼的。(哈伦,<span lang=en-us>9岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">3.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">爱上一个人的感觉如何?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>如果会像学拼写那么麻烦,我可不想试。太花时间了。(里奥,<span lang=en-us>7岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">4.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">外表重要吗?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>外表并不是最重要的。我长得应该算不错了,可是没听说过有谁想嫁给我。(加里<span lang=en-us>7岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">5.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">为什么恋人们总是手牵手?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>是怕戒指掉下来吧!那些东西很贵的。(大卫,<span lang=en-us>8岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">6.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">愿意恋爱吗?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 9.0pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>我还是很希望和人谈恋爱的——只要别在电话放《猫和老鼠》的时候。(安妮塔,<span lang=en-us>6岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 9.0pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>就算你想躲起来,爱情也一定会找到你的——从<span lang=en-us>5岁起,我就常常想藏起来不让人看见,</span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 9.0pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span lang=en-us><font size=3>可是那些女孩老 是能找到我。(鲍比,8岁)<o:p></o:p></font></span></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">7.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">怎么让别人爱上你?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>告诉她你有好多糖。(阿朗佐,<span lang=en-us>9岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">8.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">怎么判断在餐厅里吃饭的两个大人是不是在恋爱?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>看看是谁付钱。谈恋爱的男人都愿意付钱。(约翰,<span lang=en-us>9岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>恋爱的人总是我盯着你,你盯着我,吃的东西都凉了。(布拉德,<span lang=en-us>8岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>恋爱的人准会叫甜品——他们心里准是很甜。(克里斯汀,<span lang=en-us>9岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">9.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">当一个人说“我爱你”的时候,心里想着什么?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>她没准在想:爱是爱,不过最好他能勤点洗澡,至少一天一次。(米歇尔,<span lang=en-us>9岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">10.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">应该什么时候亲吻自己喜欢的人?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>除非我有足够多的钱,买得起结婚戒指和摄像机,否则我不会去吻一个女孩子。因为女孩子们总是想把结婚那天录下来。(吉姆,<span lang=en-us>10岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 39pt; text-indent: -18pt; tab-stops: list 39.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4"><font size=3><span lang=en-us style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">11.<span style="font: 7pt 'times new roman'"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">爱情怎样才能持久?<span lang=en-us><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>多花一点时间,不要老是想着上班。(汤姆,<span lang=en-us>7岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p><p class=msonormal style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><font size=3>接吻的本事很有用——就算你忘了清理垃圾,她也会原谅你的。(兰迪,<span lang=en-us>8岁)<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>